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Writing Prompt: What book is next on your reading list?
I really have slacked off with my book reading, and I should be absolutely embarrassed by this. I will never be one of those one-book-per-week kinda people because my free time is so little and the list of things I need to accomplish in my free time is extremely long. But that doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t read ever.
To make matters worse, I have an extremely short attention span, so I will pop onto a blog or read short articles or listen to a podcast when I do have some time to sit. But I have not been motivated to read a lengthy book in a while.
I have downloaded a few things that are ready to go on my kindle over the past few months, and I’ve also gotten some book recommendations that I’m dying to jump on. So in no particular order, I’ll go through what I like to read and what books are on my upcoming reading list.
What I like to read: In general, the types of books I love to read are going to either be smut, forbidden romance, LGBTQ smut and romance (which covers the previous two topics), and things that make me think or learn. There’s something about people powering through every reason they shouldn’t be together so that they can love and be loved. I also love a good sex scene. And I love trying to get my life together. So, the books that I read typically fit into those boxes.
When it comes to getting my life together, I absolutely love Brene Brown, Tony Robbins and authors similar to them. My boyfriend and I love to discuss these books because they help us keep a pulse on our thoughts, emotions and goals. I love to learn about business and social media, and I love lifestyle books that inspire me. I particularly love anything that covers intentional, simple, or minimalist living. I also love to learn different ways to organize and budget.
So without further ado, here are the six books that I’ve downloaded and/or plan to read in the near future:
Saint (Priest Book 3) by Sierra Simone: Smut smut smut. I already read books 1 and 2, so this one completes the trilogy.
Strictly Professional by Kathryn Nolan: more smut. I haven’t read this author yet, but I started following her on IG and FB, so her book is on my list.
A Way Home by Kiera Andrews: A gay Amish romance, and the third in a series. I loved the first two books so I’m excited to find out what’s next for the main characters.
The More of Less: Finding the Life You Want Under Everything You Own by Joshua Becker: This author is a master of living a minimilist life, which is something I’ve been interested in for quite some time. So I’m super interested to read his thoughts on the topic.
Down to Earth (a guide to simple living) by Rhonda Hetzel: This book is on my blogger friend, Rebekah’s, Book of the Month list. It seems right on par with my simple living interests.
Kakeibo: The Japanese Art of Saving Money by Fumiko Chiba: I am really intrigued by this concept of budgeting and intentional spending and saving. I feel like sometimes something that should be simple is made difficult, and I feel like the Japanese concept of budgeting, kakeibo, takes budgeting and pares it down into simple concepts. It’s essentially a minimalist and mindful approach to budgeting, and I’m intrigued.
So that’s my upcoming reading list. What types of things do you enjoy reading? Do you have any book recommendations? I’d love to hear about it!
I woke up this morning with a buzz in my ear…and here it is.
You may have seen on my social media, on my etsy shop and on my blog that I call myself a kindness advocate. Let me explain a little. Judging comes very easy to me. Always has. Expectations and opinions flow through my veins. It is only through some serious growth, and a few hard lessons, that I realized that I’m not always right and kindness truly matters.
Giving the benefit of the doubt matters.
Understanding that everyone is different matters.
Realizing that everyone’s circumstances are different, their backgrounds are different, their response mechanisms are different, their support systems are different…and that all of that matters.
It took me well into my 30s before I realized that how I think, how I react, and what I do is not always right. That was a hard pill to swallow. Lol. I realized I’m not always the smartest person in the room and that I’m definitely not always right. I don’t always have the answers, and there are other ways of doing and thinking that are better than the way I do it.
I realized that you really have to hear where a person comes from and how they got to where they are in life before you can really understand their position, their mentality, and their actions.
Maybe you would have done things differently if faced with the same set of circumstances, but maybe not. I had to really examine how many times I’ve made a bad decision, one that others in my exact situation wouldn’t have made, and how I had to learn from the mistake to truly appreciate just how bad of a decision it was. Most of the time, the decisions were things I could recover from. But some did change my life in more permanent ways. But should I be judged or should someone be mean to me because I chose a wrong path or because I made a decision they wouldn’t have made? I don’t think so.
But every interaction may not afford you the opportunity for a deep dive into people’s lives so that you can understand exactly how they got to that street corner, or wound up in a financial bind, or whatever. It may only be seconds of time out of your life that your path crosses with someone. And that’s when you have to decide. Would I rather spend these seconds judging, being mean, ignoring, or getting riled up? Or would I rather realize this is a human being that got here by means of which I do not know, and that this person could use a couple of dollars, a sweater, a drink, a meal, a smile, or at the very least, for someone to not add to the weight on their shoulders by being mean to them?
My choice is compassion. Or rather, the choice I hope I make each time is compassion. Kindness. Generosity. I’m working each day to train myself to make that choice, and to advocate for people to consider compassion as their choice. It’s not always easy, and it doesn’t come naturally all the time. But that’s what I am working towards each day. Kindness always. Even when it’s really, really, really hard.
Through my apparel, I try to emphasize positivity and good vibes. I try to always smile, and I try to see the good in every person I interact with either in person or on social media. I’m not always successful, trust me. But it is something I actively strive for each day.
These days we are all coping with unprecedented stress. We are in a situation we may not see again in our lifetime. We are all figuring it out and we are all trying our best. And we all deserve a little kindness.
Do you have a personal attribute that you are working on? What made you realize it was time to work on that particular quality? What do you do to motivate yourself to work on it? Do you have any tips?